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Intimacy with God

By Louis Michel Adjeme 3 min read

Intimacy with God

Introduction

We live in a world that constantly chases after time, where activities, responsibilities and distractions assail us from every side. The biblical story of Martha and Mary challenges us deeply. It asks us this essential question: What truly matters in our walk with God?

Today, we are going to talk about the importance of cultivating deep intimacy with God and a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, through the example of Mary.

Definition of the Terms of the Theme


Intimacy with God :

  • A state of spiritual and emotional closeness with God, where we open ourselves to Him and give Him the depths of our being.
  • We listen to His Word and commune with Him in prayer.
  • This intimacy also implies conformity to Christ :
    • Exclusivity : we give ourselves to Him exclusively, and give Him exclusively what we do not give to people and to the world.

A personal relationship with Jesus Christ : An individual and conscious connection with Jesus, recognizing His sacrifice on the cross as the foundation of our salvation and following Him daily as His disciple.

Development

  1. Mary's Good Portion

  • In the midst of a whirlwind of obligations, Mary chose to sit at Jesus' feet, listening to His word. Jesus affirms that this choice is the one thing needed, the good portion that will not be taken from her.
  • This scene perfectly illustrates the priority that intimacy with God should have in our lives. Like Mary, we are invited to consciously choose this good portion.

  • Martha's Trap
    • Martha, absorbed in serving, embodies our own tendency to put action before relationship, doing before becoming. Her restlessness contrasts with Mary's peace, illustrating the difference between working for God and being with God.
    • Jesus gently invites her to recognize that her worry and agitation are in vain compared to the value of communion with Him.

  • The Need for Balance
    • This is not about devaluing service to God and to others, but about understanding that without a foundation of intimacy with God, our efforts can become empty and self-centered.
    • Cultivating a personal relationship with Jesus is the fertile soil from which our actions can grow and be nourished.

    Conclusion

    The scene of Martha and Mary reveals a profound truth about our walk with God. Intimacy with Him and a personal relationship with Jesus Christ are not merely enriching elements of the Christian life; they are its very heart. Without this foundation, our lives can easily sink into empty activism or spiritual exhaustion.

    Call to Action

    So today I invite you to reflect on your own life. Have you chosen the good portion? Are you leaving enough room for intimacy with God and a personal relationship with Jesus? If not, I encourage you to set aside time each day to sit at Jesus' feet, read His Word, pray, and listen. Make this sacred space a non-negotiable priority in your life.

    Written by Louis Michel Adjeme

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